Self: Figuring it out

Well it needs to be figured out, and no one else is going to do it.

Others are going to be making decision based on what they want, and how it effects themselves.  Always.  even when the seem genuinely interested in you nd your life, they will always make decisions based on how it effects their personal lifestyle and goals.  So I need to figure out what works for me, then make sure that any decision I make, no matter how small, is taking me in that direction.

Figure out who I am and what I want.  Their decisions will work for them, but I need to make my decisions for myself and make it work for me.  I am not defined by others, but my own decisions and actions.  those in my life will make decision based on their own needs and judgements, not always reflecting on how their personal choice effects me or others.

I need to make a firm decision, no a choice, of where I want to be, where I am headed and what I am going to do or sacrifice to get there.  

Don't just latch on to whomever seems to be around, but take heed and precisely surround myself with others who support and lift me up,  Do not compromise myself to be surrounded by others or to gain their approval.

The only approval that is needed is my own.
The whole beauty of self acceptance,  Is the fact that we, our selves, choose to be happy.